Have you noticed that some women have issues with controlling and persuasion? There are women who constantly try to persuade you on certain items of use, things that we should do. Most times it is because they can't understand that others have a brain too, that people have the right to feel what they feel.
Although there are few women who are blatantly obvious about controlling and tripping over power. But men, on the other hand, are totally obvious. Some of whom I have recently met have a hard time letting go of things they were responsible for. They like to be in control, and want to the have power to deny, say no. It is almost like it is their way of getting back at rejection. Especially if those guys have been rejected a lot. Even if it's not their call to make the decision, they go out of their way to make sure that their victim - whoever they have decided against, gets denied.
The usual man has a cave, he marks his territory. He retreats to his cave to think and devise a plan. The deco in his cave states masculinity and strength. SO doesn't really have a cave, but if he did, I would have to get him some gifts for a man cave this Christmas.
Here are Self Sagacity's Thursday Two Questions #65:
1) Have you experience this type of behavior from a man or woman?
2) Do you think they can be helped or it's just the way they are?
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