tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post8366646351339693974..comments2023-12-17T02:58:19.521-08:00Comments on Self Sagacity: Why Do Older Women Seek Younger Men? Thursday Two Questions #161Self Sagacityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-72500082797241453842013-12-21T07:12:28.501-08:002013-12-21T07:12:28.501-08:00I have dated only older men during my 14 years of ...I have dated only older men during my 14 years of being a single mom. They were good men and treated me very well however, there were issues. Either they were too set in their ways or too calculated with going the distance with a ready-made family. My husband is 8 years younger than me. I hesitated at first and somewhat embarrassed of the age difference. My mom told me older men I dated didn’t offer the same kindness and uncalculated love towards me and my kids, it’s not the age, it’s the heart. Thirteen years of marriage later, I feel blessed to be with this successful, handsome, younger man and would not do it again differently. My younger man is a unique man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-24184882738359764532013-11-30T11:12:26.265-08:002013-11-30T11:12:26.265-08:00This is very interesting.
Wow.
I think older wo...This is very interesting. <br />Wow. <br /><br />I think older women seek younger men for all the reasons you state above and that at this time in their lives, they are more awakened and feel bolder, more confident and free to be themselves. <br />Men are all up on life early. Women mature. <br />When men mature, they seem to just fade. <br /><br />Colette Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04844522784600855200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-1989964300645209402013-11-20T20:09:45.019-08:002013-11-20T20:09:45.019-08:00I think women in general like the idea of taking c...I think women in general like the idea of taking care of something. We're nurturers. With that my husband is about the same age as me.An Apel a Dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05409392467947270395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-63184066550422316862013-11-19T23:26:02.002-08:002013-11-19T23:26:02.002-08:00MY husband watches TV and sports games and falls a...MY husband watches TV and sports games and falls asleep early, he is in his 30's. I guess I need to go younger? hahaNancynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-34063235977532730462013-11-19T11:23:46.137-08:002013-11-19T11:23:46.137-08:00At least now we have someone thinking straight- ju...At least now we have someone thinking straight- just teasing. For a moment, I thought, omg, who did I interviewed? No, it is a matter of preference and depending on the people involved as you say, I do like older men for the most part. I couldn't date someone even a year younger, but then, now I am wondering as I get older, that I might not be more compatible with someone younger a bit - only hypothetically speaking for the sake of the subject. Love my SO and wish god made more of him!Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-49378618687571621632013-11-19T11:20:53.830-08:002013-11-19T11:20:53.830-08:00Oh yeah..that's too creepy. I think it is bett...Oh yeah..that's too creepy. I think it is better that the younger men are older than our sons at least...@-)Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-7032496295338132562013-11-19T11:20:03.765-08:002013-11-19T11:20:03.765-08:00Yes. Older men like are like older technology...ha...Yes. Older men like are like older technology...haha. They are good, they store a lot of memories, but they slow down...<br />Yet, if you compare them with wine, they are better as they age. hahaSelf Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-21174122383459208862013-11-19T11:18:47.602-08:002013-11-19T11:18:47.602-08:00I think the happy people have no opinions about an...I think the happy people have no opinions about any gossip...hahaSelf Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-71967787366789732842013-11-19T11:18:16.112-08:002013-11-19T11:18:16.112-08:00I am not sure about that Theresa, he is like 83 ye...I am not sure about that Theresa, he is like 83 years old! I think you are thinking he might be 60 something? How fast time flies!Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-4528350443107363132013-11-19T10:59:56.124-08:002013-11-19T10:59:56.124-08:00You are blessed! Sounds like he is definitely one ...You are blessed! Sounds like he is definitely one in a few millions. I am sure there are some of those, but not enough to go around as you can see...<br />Sometimes I wanted to have a notebook to keep handy for those who are seeking, then write down the names and match them together....as some I find a misfits, miss-matched. (o)Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-5585708558327955272013-11-19T10:56:58.488-08:002013-11-19T10:56:58.488-08:00I know you live like a nun. :-d I am sure you have...I know you live like a nun. :-d I am sure you have your opinions, but gracefully declined to share. :d. <br />Thanks for validating the points I chose for this article. (k)Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-50037600496928795772013-11-19T10:55:12.172-08:002013-11-19T10:55:12.172-08:00When there is a vast difference in age, I can see ...When there is a vast difference in age, I can see the younger person needing to change. There are many relationships that are real even with the age difference...to me the same goes for couples whose ages are not as different too. 8-)Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-50769185546711874332013-11-19T10:49:11.533-08:002013-11-19T10:49:11.533-08:00all men seems to be wonderful in the beginning, th...all men seems to be wonderful in the beginning, that said, I believe women are too. Once married, there are other worries that kill the romance. the goal might be for us to find people who are 150% in the beginning, then when half of the thrill is gone, there will at least be 75% left. Self Sagacityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404148735941132540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-23504239481532883962013-11-18T08:25:19.076-08:002013-11-18T08:25:19.076-08:00Interesting thoughts. I feel for me, if an older w...Interesting thoughts. I feel for me, if an older woman takes the time to care for herself, then why not go for a younger man who at least for the time being is taking care of themselves. In a way, it is all about the self image. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10304701332216772385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-88872444373098379592013-11-16T19:55:12.611-08:002013-11-16T19:55:12.611-08:00I think it's probably a matter of the people i...I think it's probably a matter of the people involved. That being said, my son is 25 so I could never have an interest in anyone that age...it's just too weird. mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-11094475331129416402013-11-14T19:24:49.702-08:002013-11-14T19:24:49.702-08:00oh, personally, i am more attracted to older men b...oh, personally, i am more attracted to older men because I dreamed since i was young to marry Harrison Ford and be Indiana Jones partner, haha! anyway, I love my hubby, my INDY :)betchaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04754061874315713589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-32608883492443534852013-11-14T19:23:37.689-08:002013-11-14T19:23:37.689-08:00oh, I am like Icy, maybe, too secluded I do not kn...oh, I am like Icy, maybe, too secluded I do not know the answer to the questions :(betchaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04754061874315713589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-55769296827835752452013-11-14T08:11:50.901-08:002013-11-14T08:11:50.901-08:00I can agree with most of this. Younger men do have...I can agree with most of this. Younger men do have more energy and are more fun to be around. However, if Sean Connery came knocking on my door, I'd pick him over a spring chicken any day :)Theresa Mahoneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10709965543595065306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-17477088827024880412013-11-14T07:42:48.843-08:002013-11-14T07:42:48.843-08:00I don't know why a mature woman would pick a y...I don't know why a mature woman would pick a younger man, really. If I were single, I would not look for a younger mate. It would creep me out way too much, especially if we're talking about someone who is half my age like you see with some celebrities. Not all older men have problems and for this I am very grateful for in mine. I think he can give the 20-something males a run for their money, if you know what I mean. *wink-wink*<br /><br />Honestly, I don't know how meaning for these sorts of relationships are. I am definitely not one of authority on this topic. Personally speaking, I would be happier seeking a mate my age or older, if I were single. Thankfully, I do not have to worry about such things. I am totally blessed to be with the perfect mate who I hope to grow very, very old with.<br /><br />Thanks for hosting T2Q! Cathy Kennedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01056276734145310231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-36300776063541562902013-11-14T05:49:51.824-08:002013-11-14T05:49:51.824-08:00I live somewhat of a secluded life, and I don'...I live somewhat of a secluded life, and I don't often wonder about what other people do..so I don't know the answers to your questions.<br /><br />However, I believe yours points are very realistic and true..Icy BChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14137249916575963385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-48400110865099791512013-11-14T03:12:13.428-08:002013-11-14T03:12:13.428-08:00This seems to be a trend worldwide these days. I ...This seems to be a trend worldwide these days. I don't have any strong views for or against such relationships. I have seen some instances of it in my country and it seems as if the relationship is real as they have lasted long. However there are some that are not long lasting when the women get old as the men start seeking younger women. Thanks for hosting and have a good Thursday.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07742935336463111471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5810566902374575347.post-35697786727892828342013-11-13T18:45:49.806-08:002013-11-13T18:45:49.806-08:00Amanda, I was married twice to a considerably youn...Amanda, I was married twice to a considerably younger man. In the beginning it was wonderful. They pursued me heartily, but once married they became like all (the ones I have been with) men; thinking their job was done at the end of the work day and it was my job to take care of bill paying, house cleaning, laundry and cooking; never mind that I had worked as many if not more hours than they did!!! I liked that a younger man was not as set in his ways, that is until we exchanged our vows. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02383088026534281295noreply@blogger.com